PASSION
Sex and Passion are NOT synonymous. But some women allow them to be. Then repeatedly, walk away partially fulfilled, or not fulfilled at all. That’s comfort, and it’s misplaced comfort. A woman deserves to have passion accompany sex . . . particularly, when it’s with a man she’s in a relationship with. Whether it’s exclusive, or whether there’s an arrangement, #PassionMatters.
Passion makes a woman feel needed. Makes her feel wanted. And in turn, makes her want to give more of herself.
Passion is a feeling. Sex is a moment. Passion will last long after the sexual act is done. It’s what the actual memory is made of.
In her marriage, Giselle was comfortable. She allowed whatever pleasure that man was giving her, to be the prototype for what sex was supposed to be, inside her relationship. But when she sets out on her new journey, and passion is introduced, THAT’s when she realizes what was missing.
But my question is, why does it take someone else coming along, to awaken the fact that you haven’t been pleased? To receive the message that they’ve been fucked and not made love to?
And yeah, you’ll have women that say, “Sometimes I want to be fucked.” We all do, sis. But that isn’t what our entire sexual experience should be based on, right?
Now, when the sex and the passion are riding alongside each other . . . that shit is PHENOMENAL.